“Also, limit the negatives you bring up to those things that directly affect you and are changeable, because if it can’t be modified, arguing about it is a waste of energy.”

Kimberly Dawn Neumann in  Break Free from Your Relationship Ruts

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“If others tell us something we make assumptions, and if they don’t tell us something we make assumptions to fulfill our need to know and to replace the need to communicate. Even if we hear something and we don’t understand we make assumptions about what it means and then believe the assumptions. We make all sorts of assumptions because we don’t have the courage to ask questions.”
Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom, A Toltec Wisdom Book

therefore ASKtoCONFIRM and not panic on your own silly assumption.

Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda yang bermaksud:

“Seseorang hamba yang membicarakan sesuatu yang belum jelas baginya (hakikat dan akibatnya), akan dilempar ke neraka sejauh antara timur dan barat.” (Riwayat Muslim)

oh and if you wanna ask for help say PLEASE.benda macam tu pon nak kena ajar.aish~

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orang bodoh tidak diwar-warkan pon orang tau dia bodoh

orang pandai tidak dicop di dahi dia perkataan “genius” pon orang tau dia pandai

because

>action speaks louder than words<

lembu bagi susu diam-diam berjasa

sapi “glamour” hanya kerana minyak yang kian mahal dengan hari berlalu

try to

>be content to act, and leave the talking to others<

sayangnya, dunia maya menyebabkan ramai yang percaya dengan paparan skrin

orang yang menghebahkan kebaikan dan kelebihan diri sendiri dianggap hampir malaikat

sedangkan aib disimpan khas untuk orang sekeliling di dunia realiti

sok, pilih aja

maya atau realiti?

“self-claim” or “first-hand experience”?

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>please let it be you.i would like my search to end now.please let it be you<

>is it you, Arianna?<

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p/s: nampak sangat was born in the 80′s, layan boyband comels ala2 BSB, westlife, blue, 5ive, boyzone dan mungkin juga *flipping hands* new boyz.n next step haruslah get together girlfriends ramai2 n cop sorang satu.lebih ideal kalau girlfriends pon ber5 so dat leh selfclaim ‘one directionista’.n kalo yg dh ada bf haruslah suruh bf potong rambut sbijik cam yg telah dicop.ahakz~
p/s2:pnt aq *flip hands* throughout this post.spasm dah.haha~

p/s3: ala,xyah la nk hipokrit,ngaku je lah mmg comels pon kan?kan?X9

lost.

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p/s: congratulation dokter muda adi bin nordin.X]

So, I have been riding to school everyday and the traffic here just give me such monstrous opportunity for me to train my patience. Even with my vocabulary expanding at the speed of a charging boar, I’m a better woman already now. And for that I thank you. Oh, I even got my dear Ms. Deizi a much needed spa. thank you Adi. Got exam this week, yeay! Can’t be more excited than this. I’m, in my last week of ophthalmology department at Rumah Sakit Mata Cicendo which is Indonesia’s only National Eye Center. Cool ait? Damn nice weyh I tell you. Oh, by the way I think I’ve made a decision. Hoping its for the best. XD

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p/s: FK is getting on my shitty list again.oh,wait it never get out pon.pfft~

p/s2: The mentioning of exam in the above paragraph is to rationalize the drawing.kapisch?haha~the traffic light on the right is so ophthalmologist-like drawing kan?lalalalala~

p/s3: Dearest brothers and sisters, all the best for this week. Just survive the war and hopefully we’ll meet again for another epic story to unfold.XJ

p/s4: Friends, all the best for your exams too. fighting bebeh~

~stay strong~

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don’t go breaking my heart

for if you did

I’d be in pieces and not peace

and I’m no gnome

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p/s: gnomeo & juliet was fun-tastic.love the script and wordplay.oh and the OST is super duper nice!XD

salam,

“I just want to be the only girl you love all your life”

thank you for letting me be selfish once in a while

sometimes a girl gotta do what a girl gotta do

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p/s: good luck friends for tomorrow’s test.I need loads of them too.huu~